Love Funnel™ Upper Bottleneck

The good news is you're meeting new singles, yet not the type of singles you don't want to date. It could be that you're meeting singles that aren't the right life stage, lifestyle, or simply aren't your type.

You have an upper funnel opportunity and it's simple to fix!

Step 1: Get crystal clear on the type of singles you want to meet. Think about what type of person they are, and what they like to do.

Step 2: Brainstorm the type of events, places and activities they'd frequent. For dating apps, which ones would they be on? Make a list. Also, if you shared your email, I'll be sending you my guide on Where to Meet Singles.

Step 3: Take this list and try one new event, place, activity or dating app idea. Let's say one of the ideas you have is to try out a cycling meet up. You find one in your area, go, and give it a try. If it turns out to be a good idea, you do it again. If it's a bust, you try something else. It's simple trial and error to find places where your type of singles are.

Socially shy? If you don’t love socializing or feel awkward in social settings, you can select events that are more structured. This takes the pressure off you to make small talk.